Thirty-five years ago, HBO’s docuseries Real Sex threw paint on the mink coat of “sexuality” as the media always portrayed it.
At the time, I remember thinking how different Real Sex was from what I’d come across before: the typical, hot Hollywood sex scenes or the “dirty pictures” and movies I had run across in my horn-dog teens and early 20’s.
When I look back, I see that I had been trained to think about sex in very stereotyped and patterned ways.
We all were.
Porn, advertising, TV, Hollywood, magazines and other media create a whole range of false ideas about sex and intimacy.
Carl Jung warned against the danger of “living someone else’s life—” about our tendencies to observe others and say “I want to be like that.”
Well then, what about “living someone else’s sex life?” How many of us are doing that?
A lot of us.
We sacrifice our unique essence in favor of some idea about what we “should be.” Instead of living our own uniqueness fully, we get caught in trying to look good in others’ eyes. We copy, instead of create.
We are duped – and caught in cycles of not only believing what it is that we’ve been trained to think about sex, but also acting on these beliefs in ways that are unrewarding or, in some cases, harmful. Objectification of women, deceiving projections and fantasies, porn addiction, and, at the extreme, incest, misogyny and rape…
We are caught in cycles that not only can hurt women deeply, but also hurt ourselves. We are not creating love and possibility. We are creating patterns of dependence, addiction, unreality, and harm.
And, we are so busy playing out these patterns that we abandon our own unique sexual path, one that has great potential.
No two sexual lives are exactly the same.
What would it look like to live out your own unique, special, sexual life – to allow it to unfold naturally, to grow and unfold, to actualize your full sexual potential?
Make no mistake about it. This potential is PROFOUND. As a man, you are capable of things sexually that you can’t even imagine.
All kinds of sexual skills and experiences, gifts to the feminine, opportunities for love, and even connection to the divine.
All of this is possible when you recognize you’ve been in the sexual Matrix, and it’s time to take the Red Pill.
It’s time to claim your unique sexual path. It’s time to claim your sexual potential.
And anyone can do it. You just have to know how.
This Saturday, August 9th, I’m leading a special, live embodiment practice via Zoom, from 10-11:48am EST. It will be a journey of discovery into the world of authentic sexual embodiment.
A good friend of mine, Speed Weed, a Hollywood writer and men's embodiment and relationship coach, created 108 Minutes, a live (on Zoom), guided embodiment group for men.
Speed and I trained together under John Wineland, and I’m pleased to say I’ve been a long-standing regular on 108 Minutes. It’s an honor to stand in for him this week.
Come get glimmers of your sexual future and learn my 10 Keys to Sexual Self-Mastery, all in one embodiment practice.
You’ll be able to use these practices to start to retrain your sexual nervous system. To escape the sexual Matrix. To own your true sexual power.
Join us.
To sign up or share, go to:
https://www.workingdeep.com/108-minutes
For more on what I do (and a whole lot of resources on sexual self-mastery for men) –
See you there 🔥
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